Under the umbrella of my thinking cap, exist two perspectives of my world. Both are driven by a passion for writing and communicating.
If you’re a Facebook friend or follow my @MoxieDude Tweets, you know that my kids made a major discovery this week – one that has completely changed the way that we communicate in this household.
Enter Skype.
Suddenly conversations have been taken to a new level. And when I say “level”, I mean between the first and second floors of our house. Gone are the face-to-face inquiries about when supper will be ready or whether I’ve washed a favourite pair of jeans. Here at techno-geek headquarters, this now all gets done through laptops and iPads.
So as I’ve been playing along with my kids’ newest “toy”, answering Skype calls and conversations, I’m realizing that although they’re experimenting with innovative-to-them technology, two things haven’t actually changed at all:
- The conversations
- Their reactions to the conversations
Responses to my “did you make your bed?” are the same (I’m either ignored or I get an annoyed, “YES!”)
And while this parallel between in-person and via-technology communications is being demonstrated on a home-front level, it’s worth noting that it’s really just a glimpse of how EVERYONE responds to the way something is said.
Key Point: Even during social media conversations.
Of course, if being ignored during your social media conversations is your goal, here are a few quick ways to achieve this:
- Only ever interact when you want something
- Always make the conversation about you
Then again, if you want to keep the conversation going and grow the relationship, make sure to:
- Be consistent with your interactions
- Join in on other people’s conversations by leaving pertinent comments
Interacting, whether in person or online, will always be about sharing: your knowledge, your thoughts, your uniqueness. What’s important is the way that you share (i.e. how you say something).
I no longer ask my kids if they’ve made their beds. The question has evolved to, “is your bed cozy for tonight?”
Focusing on the benefit (instead of the task) works at home too!
If you’re interested in the other perspective of this “discovery”, I invite you to check out moxie-dude.com this Friday for the weekly post.